a girl? a woman?

somebody sent this to me. i find it somewhat shrewd and would like to relate it to my own experience. from my own judgment, i am somewhere in between the two. not a girl, not yet a woman..

For all the girls out there. This maybe a good read for you to prepare urself of being a 'matured women'....

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
**he was only around once in a while. to make up for all the time being apart, i will try to squeeze him in my schedule. i want our relationship to be as fulfilling to him as well as to myself. but then again, if he wants it to happen as much as i do, he would have spared more time for me**

Matured women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits
**once i was totally mad at him. he planned to come down a day early for his meeting in KL. but then, i was told that his boss ask him to take the fixed-wing. so we were only able to meet up on the meeting day itself, which also happens to be my off-day. i took leave to attend to pending and piling chores. so ok la we met up over breakfast, but he failed to text me upon touching down so i was late by 30 mins or so and was very upset. i think i wrote an entry about it**

Girls want to control the man in their life.
**i truly believe that what you don't understand doesn't necessarily be wrong. so if anyone can put some sense into my head, i will try to accept the logic behind your action**

Matured women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.
**well yeah if he is a man. the point is, there is no men, only bigger boys**

Girls check you for not calling them.
Matured women are too busy to realize you hadn't.
**i can understand the fact the you are probably busy with work and life, but at times we are just plain worried if you are being quiet too long**

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Matured women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.
**i don't like being alone or man-less. i am too lovely to be single. but i am also grateful for the freedom to be myself as my most recent ex attitude doesn't allow me to totally be myself. it doesn't happen to my other relationships**

Girls ignore the good guys.
Matured women ignore the bad guys.
**i am always dating nice guys. the malays are the ones to broke my heart. without fail. plus, guys are nice when they are trying to pick you up**

Girls make you come home.
Matured women make you want to come home.
**i am normally a woman on this. but i also make it a point to say it out loud at times when the sleeping alone part is no longer tolerable**

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Matured women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
**anything with tits and vagina is pretty.**

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (I.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Matured women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends!
**i love being with my girls. i prefer my man to have his own set of friends. i love hanging out with his friends if they can accept me for who i am and if he is proud showing me around and i definitely appreciate it if he wants to occasionally meet up with mine**

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Matured women offer their shoulder and a tissue.
**i always want to be my man's bestfriend. if he is comfortable to confide in me, i am more than glad to be there for him**

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Matured women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.
**i love love love public display of affection and i spoil my man with lots and lots of attention. i am not happy dating one who minds a little hand-holding and quick pecks in public**

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Matured women know that, that was just one man.
**i only do revenge to deserving ones**

Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Matured women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back and move on, without bitterness.
**i really want to move on now..**

hope the hurt ones one there will read this and get and attitude. i really want to forgive and forget but i am afraid that it is something remotely possible for the time being. so, i have no other option but to let the wound heal naturally while at the same time praying real hard.